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The Sanctuary Lamp: 8 Ways to Teach Children Jesus’ Real Presence in the Eucharist


Do you know what is the greatest treasure on earth?  It is the Holy Eucharist.  It is Jesus’ Real Presence in the Eucharist that makes it sacred, accessible, and  efficacious for our salvation.


A Church Visit

Edith Stein, a Jewish German scholar and philosopher, observed a woman carrying a shopping basket enter into the Frankfurt Cathedral and kneel for a brief prayer.  Edith wrote, “This was something totally new to me. In the synagogues and Protestant churches I had visited, people simply went to the services. Here, however, I saw someone coming straight from the busy marketplace into this empty church, to have an intimate conversation. It was something I never forgot.”


This was a beginning step for Edith Stein on her journey to become a Catholic, and later a Carmelite nun with the name of Sister Teresa Benedicta of the Cross.  Sister Teresa Benedicta of the Cross was arrested, transported to the Auschwitz concentration camp, and martyred.  Canonized in 1998, Saint Teresa Benedicta of the Cross is a co-patron saint of Europe.



Real Presence in the Eucharist

The woman carrying the shopping basket knew of course that the Frankfurt Cathedral was not empty.  She believed in the Real Presence of Jesus in the Eucharist.  Jesus in His fullness was present in the consecrated Bread stored inside the tabernacle.  To come into His presence meant to be positioned to experience an intimate heart-to-heart conversation with Jesus.


The Catechism of the Catholic Church states that “Christ Jesus, who died, yes, who was raised from the dead, who is at the right hand of God, who indeed intercedes for us,” is present in many ways to his Church: in his word, in his Church’s prayer, “where two or three are gathered in my name,” in the poor, the sick, and the imprisoned, in the sacraments of which he is the author, in the sacrifice of the Mass, and in the person of the minister. But “he is present most especially in the Eucharistic species.”  CCC #1374 states that Jesus’ presence is in the “fullest sense.”


8 Ways to Teach Children about the Real Presence in the Eucharist


Many Catholics today do not comprehend fully the beauty and depth of the Blessed Sacrament.  A Pew study in 2019 reported that only 31% of Catholics believed in Jesus’ real presence in the Eucharist, and 69% did not believe that it was Jesus but only symbolic of His Body.  What can we do to reverse the erosion of belief in this central teaching of the Church?  Parents have the most influence on the spiritual and religious development of their children. 


Here are a few suggestions to parents on how to pass on to children knowledge and faith on our Lord Jesus’ Real Presence in the Eucharist:


  1. Receive the Eucharist with reverence.  Modeling a loving attitude that honors the Eucharist will speak volumes to your children.
  2. Bring attention to the tabernacle when entering a Catholic Church.  Teach children to genuflect to show reverence in the presence of Jesus.
  3. Prepare your child for his or her First Holy Communion.  Children have the capacity to understand the love of Jesus for them.
  4. Take your children to Eucharistic Adoration.  The regular experience of prayerful silence prepares them to hear the voice of Jesus.
  5. Form their minds and hearts by reading to them from the Youth Catechism about the Eucharist.  It is Jesus Himself who invites each of them to an intimate relationship.
  6.  Observe the hour fast before receiving Holy Communion.
  7. Teach them to receive the Eucharist worthily.  Teach your children to regularly participate in the Sacrament of Confession, and to avail of it before receiving Holy Communion if they have committed a mortal sin.
  8. Make the Sign of the Cross when driving by a Catholic Church.

Red Lamp

I am grateful for the nuns that taught at the Catholic school I attended.  Those holy women instilled in me the faith of Jesus’ real presence in the Eucharist housed in the tabernacle of every Catholic church, and a sanctuary lamp is always burning (except on Good Friday).  I used to stop in a church before and after school to ‘visit’ Jesus.  This awareness of Jesus’ real  presence in the Eucharist is one of those things that has been stamped in my mind since my youth. 


Even in my young adult years when I was away from the Church, I always knew that a red lamp burned next to the tabernacle inside each Catholic Church I passed.  One time in a big city, I noticed a man genuflecting and making the Sign of the Cross at a street corner, and when I looked to see what he faced, it was a Catholic Church.  I knew exactly to whom he was reverently acknowledging amid the bustle.


Thankfully, the grace of God led me back to the Faith.  Today, whenever I enter a church, I look for the flickering red sanctuary lamp.  Although it is only a tiny flame that gently burns, it acts similar to a great beacon in a lighthouse to guide me safely and directly to Jesus who is truly present there. 




This blog post also appears in The Well.

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​​Nannet Horton

Wife, Mother, Author [also occupied as a homeschooler, NFP teacher & CGS Catechist] sharing on Catholic thought about marriage, family life, home culture and transmission of the Faith to our children + Guest writers contribute some posts.

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